10 things you should do so that your first born gets adjusted to the new baby.

Second pregnancy can be fun and tiring at the same time. The biggest thing that needs to tackle is making your first child comfortable and ready to welcome the newborn into his space. In this blog, we will discuss preparing the first child for the arrival of the newborn.

10 Preparatory Tips

Include these tips to make your first child comfortable with the news of your second pregnancy and to avoid sibling jealousy once the newborn arrives:

I. Let’s start with teaching them in the form they love to explore. Start by explaining to them the importance of protecting their baby. Teach him the ways he can interact with his sibling through animated videos or storybooks. You can teach him almost everything about communication and handling a newborn. Encourage him to play as a big one to his sibling. If he feels stuck somewhere, demonstrate, talk to him and guide him again to improvise on his elderly performance to the young. And, when you are confident about his learnings, don’t let him go instantly. Wait for the correct timings to work on other perspectives.

II. Don’t forget to train your child for the soft touches that require soon. Train the older child by explaining the rubbing technique on the tiny back of the newborn. Incentives are always good. Don’t miss on rewarding your child when he learns the art of touching his sibling. It will make your child learn to be physically positive with the newborn.

III. Be kind by your words. Don’t let children think that you’re looking down, at them, after the arrival of the new baby, into the house. Respect the feelings of each child and support them with loving words. Try to understand their unspoken feelings and sit down to sort their tensions. Stop playing the blame game with your existing children after the new one is in place.

IV. Care for them and love them a little bit more than the newborn to make them feel that they’re still the apple of your eye. Ignorance commonly finds a place in the heart of older children. In this, one cannot be held responsible. According to psychology, human nature and feelings of neglect stores in children’s minds and hearts.

V. Make your child part of preparations happening for the newborn. You can ask him about the toys, bedding, and clothing. It will promote a sense of responsibility and happiness in your older child. After you show interest in his choices, he’ll get confident and excited to check on all decor changes done for the newborn. You can even make him choose the items you bought recently, like pajamas or socks.

VI. Don’t make your older child feel like they are not important. The mothers often fasten the potty training or shift the toddler to a new bed in haste which sometimes leaves the older baby thinking he has been disposed of or replaced by the new one. Take the process slow and don’t let your child think he is getting replaced, instead make him feel he is about to get a companion.

VII. After your newborn has arrived, don’t lose focus on your older babies. We understand that the newborn requires all your attention but don’t let that attention disturb your older child. You can even give him something as a gift that’s his favorite to assure that you love enjoying time with him. You two can go for a walk or play in the playground where he feels energetic and relaxing. Go for outings together to uplift that bond even higher.

VIII. Let your other children plan name celebrations for their siblings. Let them plan the location, menu, and games at the party. Go with them to fetch the necessary items needed for the celebration. It will help your older children feel better and responsible about the event.

IX. If you feel your child is experiencing thoughts of jealousy, anger, or separation, don’t ignore them. Talk to him to make him realize his love for the sibling. You can cancel his negative thoughts using care. Remember not to snub because ignorance can cost you later.

X. Let him enjoy time with the newborn under your attention. Don’t make him think he is dangerous for the baby. Let the two enjoy the time of togetherness, love, and care. Let your other children play with the newborn.

Boost his confidence, celebrate his friendships and love his actions. We know you can do this all!

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