Colleges play a critical role in a person’s development. It provides individuals with the opportunity and freedom to create a life for themselves, but the epidemic prevented this. Due to the new coronavirus, college students were forced to return home in March of 2020, and they have been finishing their coursework online ever since.
Many students have never been able to attend college physically due to pandemics and lockdown. In fact, many have even been graduated online. Along with physical well-being, mental health also plays a significant role in overall health. As a parent, you should assist your children in adjusting to this significant change and make it as simple as possible for them.
Let’s look at some of the ways you can equip your teen for college during the pandemic:
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Do not pressurize them
They are already undergoing significant changes in their lives, and the pandemic exacerbates the situation. So, if you wish to assist your child, keep in mind that you should not pressurise them into doing things. For example, don’t pressure them about college or the courses they want to take; instead, let them work things out on their own. Give them the time and space they need, do not overdo.
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Create a daily plan
Encourage your youngster to make a curriculum plan and offer their online studies some structure. We understand how difficult it is to focus on an online platform, but providing it structure can help you better grasp the course and your learning style. They will start looking at the positive side of the routine and work towards gaining it. They will be able to balance their time and interest accordingly.
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Be friendly
They need someone to chat to right now, someone to be their friend and talk to them. A college is a location where you make lifelong pals, yet they cannot locate companions due to online learning. With so much going on in their lives, a lack of friends might be detrimental to their mental health. Do not pressurize them into sharing their sentiments; instead, let them know that they can come to you in times of need and that you are a shoulder to lean on. Let them have feelings and give them time to express if they want to.
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Listen to them
Friendships are extremely important to teenagers and young adults, and they should be – bonding with peers is one of the most critical developmental tasks for adolescents. Recognize that you understand how frustrating it is for them to be cut off from their buddies. Listen to what they’re saying, validate what they’re saying, and then tell them how you can work together to make this situation comfortable. Loosening limits about social media usage, for example, will help make up for the socializing time missed due to school closures. Encourage them to think of new methods to interact with their peers socially.
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Validate their disappointment
The loss of crucial experiences such as high school sports seasons, proms, theatre shows, and high school and college graduations will be the most devastating component of the coronavirus epidemic for many. Some people will be concerned about losing out on events that will aid them in their college applications and scholarships. Kids are understandably concerned about their future prospects. Allow them to express how they are feeling and acknowledge any true tension they may be experiencing. Then express faith in your child’s ability to bounce back.