All About IVF
Are you thinking about having a baby but feeling confused? Relax, it’s a big decision that can alter your life to a great extent, so it’s actually great to think it through before you and your partner decide to go ahead with it.
Here are some essential factors to consider and question to ask yourself as well as your partner, to help you thoughtfully reach your decision. We’ll also include some signs in your thoughts and relationship that may suggest you are ready for welcoming your child.
Are you on the same page?
Sure, there are a LOT of things to plan ahead of a baby, but the first and foremost thing to talk about is whether you and your partner are on the same page to have this baby. It would not be right to try if either of you feels they are not yet ready and want some more time. It may also be possible that one of you may never want to have a child. The best way around these differences is to sit and talk and reach a final decision, together.
The health of both parents
It is important that both the partners should be healthy for conception as well as ensuring the baby’s health. For issues regarding fertility, you can visit a fertility specialist and also think about other options for having a child, such as IVF.
If you are planning, to switch to a healthier lifestyle in which you eat healthier, stay fit and do not smoke or drink alcohol.
Other important questions to ask
Here are some relevant questions for you and your partner to discuss which can further help you get a clearer picture of whether you are ready for a baby or not. You can add more questions if any deem necessary for your personal situation.
- Are you financially prepared for the costs of raising a child?
- What will you do for child care?
- Who will take time off work when the baby is young, or falls sick?
- Which of you has job responsibilities that will be flexible to allow you to take care of the baby?
- Are you ok with sacrificing your time, money, and energy for the baby?
- What are the values with which you want to raise your children?
- Will you raise the child under a particular religion?
If you both agree on these questions, that’s a good sign. Here are some other signs that signal you both are ready to become parents.
You’re not just checking a box
Many couples are forced to plan a baby from societal expectations after they are a few years into their marriage. But no matter how much you are pressured by your parents, in-laws, or nosy neighbors, at the end of the day, you will be the mom or dad and have to, and should take the child’s responsibility. Having a child should not be a checklist thing but something you truly want and feel ready for.
Your relationship is in a good place
Along with both partners being on board to have a baby, it’s also important for them to have a solid relationship with each other. Taking care of a child is a team effort, and after the child comes, your private time can even reduce further. It’s important to know that in the future, your partner will not just be there for the baby, but for you as well. Make sure your relationship is in a healthy and happy place before you move forward.
You understand and accept the responsibility
Having a baby is a lot of responsibility, and it will not be easy. Of course, you are not expected to know-it-all all before you truly experience being a parent. Still, as an adult you should be aware of how a baby can impact your life and if you are ready for all those changes.
A child needs your time, care, energy, sacrifices, financial support, and whatnot. Make sure you are willing to do all that so that you can honestly feel ready, happy, and excited about the baby.
Source: TOI
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